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Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

... Are you happy with him? Would you be willing to chase him, no matter how much he pushes you away?

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

Of course... I'm really happy with him, I wouldn't be datin' him if I wasn't. I don't just go around datin' people for the hell of it.

It just...feels bad. That he thinks I'm just gonna toss him away. And I know that's a him thing, not a me thing, but...it feels like I should be able to fix that. It feels like I'm failin' as a boyfriend. Like, he deserves to be happy. And maybe someone else could do better at it.

If I don't make him happy too, then what's in it for him? I don't want him to settle for a consolation prize.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

[ Giving him a small nudge with his elbow. ]

You make him happy though. So happy he's terrified of it. But I think showing that you'll weather through it all and still be there's gonna chip away at that paranoia of his, bit by bit.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

[Bumps back lightly]

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

There's no way there's anyone better for him than you.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

Mori.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

Mori's perfect, yeah, but that doesn't mean he's perfect for C.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

I just wanna make him happy and he's basically refusing being happy.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

He lets himself be happy sometimes with you. That's a lot more than with other people.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

I guess that's true, huh?

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

Mm, and you can get honest boy feelings out of him sometimes too, right? How many people get those?

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

[Breathes out]

Okay, okay.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

You're both really hard on yourselves, but that's one of the things that makes you both you. One day you'll both be settled with the idea that you make each other happy.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

Maybe he'll stop thinking I'm going to leave him like ten years into marriage.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

When you have two kids and a dog?

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

Maybe when we pay off the house.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

Get a ring with a locator on it so he doesn't fling it into the abyss and get it lost all the time.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

He'd probably put the ring on a goose.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

Maybe you should get wedding tattoos.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

Or I could just surgically implant the tracker.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

Now that's romance.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

Right? He’s a lucky guy.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

With such a loving, caring boyfriend.

Re: 223 evening

[shutthefoxup]

I'm the MOST caring.

Re: 223 evening

[calmthefoxdown]

... You are. Remember that seriously, okay?